Every November, I find myself thinking about gratitude. Not just the seasonal kind, but the everyday moments where we have the chance to make someone feel genuinely appreciated. As a veterinary marketing consultant and speaker in the animal health space, I’ve seen how powerful intentional gratitude can be for teams, clients, and even entire practices.
I give an entire session on this topic because I believe we say “thank you” so often that it starts to lose meaning. When the words become automatic, the impact fades. But when appreciation is intentional, it strengthens relationships in ways data alone can’t fully capture.
So what makes a real thank you that actually lands? The best ones share three things:
- They’re specific
- They acknowledge effort
- They’re personal
One of my favorite thank you cards I’ve ever received is still hanging on the wall near my computer. I stayed one night — just one night — at a Courtyard in Rochester, New York. The room was $149, and it was an in-and-out trip. Nothing special.
At check in I was handed a handwritten thank you card from the general manager. It was simple, thoughtful, and completely unexpected. And here I am, years later, still talking about it.
That’s what meaningful appreciation does. It makes you pause.

I think about my mentor who used to call every new client personally just to say thank you. No script. No agenda. Just genuine gratitude. As the owner of the business, that simple act carried incredible weight.
And this is where the veterinary profession shines when it leans into moments like these.
When a pet owner walks out your door, take one extra moment to look them in the eye and thank them for trusting you. Remind them that they have options. They can choose any veterinary clinic — but they chose you. And they continue choosing you because of the relationship you build every single day.
If I can receive a handwritten thank you card for a single night in a Courtyard in Rochester, there is absolutely room for small, meaningful gestures in animal health that create lasting impressions. These touches don’t require much time, but they have a profound impact on client loyalty and perception of value.
As we head toward the end of the year, it’s the perfect time to rethink how we express gratitude in our practices. Not the quick “thanks, have a good day,” but the kind of thank you that makes someone stop, smile, and remember you.
In veterinary medicine, gratitude isn’t just polite — it’s a powerful connector. And it builds the kind of trust that keeps clients coming back for years.
